So you may be wondering why we had to change the blog address. Answer: it was our homepage on our computer.
No big deal.
Until someone breaks into your house and steals your valuables, iMac included... with
all of your personal information.
I do not know why, but we were sure that something like this would never happen to us. We live low-key, inconspicuous lives and have no known enemies. However, we live in the city of Philadelphia--the statistics are not in our favor.
Here's the story:Yesterday we all piled into the car and headed out for a "sights of Philadelphia" tour. We left around 11:30 and were not planning on being home any time before 5:00. After our tour of the city, Juan dropped me off at work and he and the girls went shopping. They pulled up to the back of the house around 5:45 so Juan could run in and get his shorts for basketball. As he went to unlock the deadbolt, the door pushed open. He didn't step foot inside the house and immediately called the police. According to him, they showed up fairly quickly and scanned the house. Luckily no one was inside.
A detective showed up and they started the search for fingerprints. Unfortunately, the effort was futile. They questioned the neighbors and found that a 13 year-old boy saw two men in a red mini-van trying all of the back doors in the alleyway. It's easy to understand why he and his little brother didn't call the police... they were scared of being connected with putting two potentially dangerous criminals in jail. (For some reason, and this is a bit of a frustration, the cops didn't press the boy for any information. Granted, everything was happening very quickly for everyone involved so things were bound to get lost through the cracks.)
Anyway, I ended up taking the trolley home from work because Juan had told me it would be faster. A bit annoyed, I rode home, completely unaware of the events that had passed. When Juan picked me up at the station, the story was revealed and what do you think happened? I completely LOST it. Sobbing, I kept thinking of only two reasons for my sadness: 1. We had just lost every photo (or visual journal, as I call them) on that computer from the last few months or so, as well as the photos taken last Saturday with our camera in NYC with my cousin's "Traveling Flat Stanley" project; and 2. I felt completely exposed, violated and taken-advantage-of.
After I finally got control of my feelings, I went inside to see the damage for myself. It was not worse or better than I had expected, just altogether bad. Our office was the hardest-hit place because it held the computer and all the electronics, as well as the camera. The thieves took the few valuable things there and moved on to the garage; luckily, we are just young whippersnappers so we don't have too many nice things and they didn't take anything else. That didn't stop them from trying, though. They made their way through all 3 floors of the house, searching for money (presumably.) They were not giving up until they found it, too.
Luckily they didn't hit Siena's room because it doesn't look promising in that respect. They did go through Ilse's things, but just lightly and amazingly they didn't find her valuables. I think our room was searched the hardest (judging by the subsequent tornado scene.) Every dresser drawer was open, clothes were strewn everywhere, the bed and mattress were searched and the closet door was ajar. When I looked inside the closet, there was fiberglass everywhere and the crawl-space to the attic had been busted open. I am certain that they thought we had hidden money somewhere. (
He he he... little did they know... they had already been through the places where our rainy day fund was and didn't see a cent. So tricky we are- so tricky.)There are many reasons why you don't want to ever get robbed, but I think one of the biggest reasons is because it is a ROYAL PAIN to change
every password and
every bank and credit card account and
every exposed part of your daily life (aka: blog). So it's been an interesting couple of days as we have had to deal with this, but there are so many good things that we have been able to take from this experience. Acknowledging these things is no attempt to mask the pain and trial that this has been, but to change the memory of this experience into a more positive thing. With that:
We are blessed enough to have had renter's insurance, in the likelihood of this circumstance; so the actual, tangible objects are not of concern to me. (That $500 deductible does stink, though!) ;^)
We are entirely grateful that no one was home at the time. The more we are finding out, the more likely it is that they were armed, or at least prepared to put up a fight.
It is no coincidence that Ilse's belongings were unscathed. Her passport, wallet, IDs, camera and iPod were all in the house, and some in plain sight, at the time of the crime. I really do believe that as she is preparing to go on an LDS mission to Texas in April, the Lord is protecting her from events that would make the paperwork and process more difficult.
And I guess I can say that in a small way, I am grateful this happened to us because we have learned how to prepare better for something like this, or to hopefully prevent it altogether. For example, the mere placement of valuable objects together in one room is not a good idea, unless that room happens to be a vault or a safe. Also, (the obvious) a security system is sounding more and more appealing. During big dips in the economy, crime rates increase as people get more and more desperate for things of value. We also realized that we need to be more strategic with passwords and backing-up files onto DVDs or external harddrives. Lastly, we are now going to be less-trusting of people in the future. I HATE THAT! Trust is a fundamental trait of a human being and if tossed to the wind, I think society would turn robotic. Trust is what helps define the character of a man. It is what has helped wars to be mended. Trust is the difference between a stranger and a friend. It's a sad day when one has to bring it down a notch or two.
Again, we are lucky. The perpetrators must have assumed that the camera they stole was the only camera we had. Unfortunately, it was the most valuable camera, but they passed over our old camera which has been a great help for documenting the crime scene. I'll post pictures tomorrow.
We also have been blessed with good friends who take care of us. When our landlord's handyman (and our close friend) found out about the intrusion, he was more than willing to come over and help us fix the broken door, even though he had put in a full day of work already. He temporarily fixed it yesterday and today he worked on repairing the door frame and deadbolt. We owe him a lot.
Another awesome break we got was that they didn't take Juan's laptop. The reason is probably because it was sitting on the dining room table in shambles. Earlier yesterday morning, Siena had snuck downstairs and had started pulling off all of the keys on the laptop. Juan didn't have time to fix it so when they saw it in a mess on the table, they probably assumed it was broken and of no worth to them. It probably would be of no worth to them, however, it has SAVED us through trying to get this whole situation taken care of... broken keys and all. The Internet is
invaluable when it comes to cleaning up a home robbery and possible identity theft. So, THANKS to SIENA for being a sneaky little computer-disassembler.
Okay, I think it is waaayyy too late for me to still be writing this. So anyway, hope everyone is doing well,
sincerely, and please forgive me that I haven't commented on
your blogs lately. I am about 1/4 of the way through my blog list and am so excited to get to the rest of you, but first things first--we've got to get our life back together around here, starting with cleaning up the fingerprinting powder off of every smooth surface in the office.
Wish us luck!
(And coming up... a day of fame for
Marie Read!)